Thank you very much for the feedback, Dr. Jenike! I already looked into some of the resources you offered and I ordered Herb Gravitz book. I feel so isolated and helpless. It is a vicious cycle; I get so frustrated but then I feel guilty and feel sorry for him because I know he has an illness. I am excited to read the book and hope it helps!
I have one last question. Is it normal for people suffering from OCD to deny that their issues are as severe as they are? Or, are they aware of their issues but too embarrassed to admit it. I worry that if he doesn't really see it he will never agree to get help (he will not go to couples therapy either, I've tried many times).
Thank you for your help!